Monday, May 20, 2013

Observations

Can we all acknowledge what a miracle it is to find a significant other and both be on the same page with whatever relationship it is that you have with each other?  Thank you.

It has recently again come to my realization the following (please allow me the sweeping generalizations of heterosexual single-people):
  • All men lament the perceived truth of the statement, "nice guys finish last"
  • All men think that they are the unique "nice guy"
  • All women think that they are less dramatic than the majority of females
  • All men think that women are crazy
  • All women blame their bitterness and unhappiness on men

It's a little fascinating to me that dating when you're older is much more difficult than dating when you're younger.  I thought it would have gotten easier as time went on; we have matured and grown up.  We are all adults and should have figured out how to communicate with each other at this point.  

And yet, that is not the case.  I find that dating is much more confusing now than it used to be.  Men have turned in to complete commitment-phobes and run away at the mere thought of choosing only ONE woman to go out with at a time.  Women can't WAIT to have a legitimate trusting relationship with a man, and in turn end up scaring the single pants off of the men, as the men interpret and read women's projections as:  I WANT TO GET MARRIED RIGHT NOW!  It's just not an easy area to navigate.  Inaccurate assumptions are made on both sides, nothing is really truly discussed openly and honestly, and nobody understands each other.


I vow to get my knee back to feeling better (Please, knee, PLEASE!!) and making this my statement for the rest of the year:


I need to get back to being able to train for races.  Especially triathlons.

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